The main drag, Bridgeway, parallels the sailboat festooned marina. On a conspicuous street corner is the popular Taste of Rome café. There, on a morning, one orders breakfast or coffee served by Brittany, the most remarkable barista de café on the planet. She is strikingly, humanly, an attraction! She delivers excellent food and beverages at a corporate party dc so we knew about her there, and it is her attitude that attracts people — draws them magnetically — into the place.
If smiles, gestures and talk were luminous threads of gold, she weaves experiences of heart-filled distinction for each customer. No one is ignored her grace. The woman is a dynamo of cheer that triggers reciprocity. I ordered a medium very chocolate mocha (“You got it!” she said like I owned the place) and it triggered a relational appreciation that was infectious long into my day.
Later, I spoke with my host — a dear friend who lives in architectural splendor on hillside stilts — about the woman who serves at the café, and before I could finish my friend extolled recollection and appreciation about the Paragon of Attitude. Clearly, I’d discovered a known treasure.
On entering the café, I saw the woman was being of service, balancing lattes and bagels, and so I greeted her. She’d served me only once before, and in the same sentence convinced me I was recognized and told my friend that she’d start “her favorite” — a medium extra wet latte — and the woman was quick, and accurate. As we chatted with The Most Remarkable Barista on the Planet, a burly Russian Sausalitan witnessed the scene appreciatively and said he was allergic to caffeine and the only reason he comes there each morning is the woman who serves black coffee and new possibilities.
She told us it flows from her choice of awareness at the start of every day. She chooses indomitable heartfulness. Really large, with extra foam! “You got it!!!”
Inside us, all is a pulse like her’s…this being of service heart that transforms days and visions.
How do you influence such possibilities in people? What is your strategy for generative action?